The Berean Christian Academy varsity boys basketball team continued its undefeated regular season last night with a double digit win. I had the privilege of watching them play for the first time this season, as I made the drive to watch them compete in an out-of-conference game. The boys played well and secured the victory with hustle and timely shots. It was enjoyable to see them work together to beat a good team.
While at the game, I enjoyed speaking to some of our school staff and fans who also made the drive. There was a little nostalgia for me, as I played in this same gym 32 years ago while representing our school. I enjoy sports, and I am glad our Christian school is able to participate in several different athletic programs. I attribute much of my leadership and personal development to my involvement in sports.
As I watched the game, I reflected on the privilege of having a role in my school in some capacity for more than 40 years. When it comes to basketball, I have held a few roles. I believe there are lessons we can take from these positions as they relate to life:
I was a player.
I was an active participant on the court. I practiced. I played hard. When we won, we celebrated. When we lost, we were disappointed. My contributions came through my active participation in the court.
I was the coach.
For 13 seasons, I coached our varsity basketball team. This role was much different than being a player. I could now use my experience as a former player to help those I was coaching. I also used my knowledge and influence to help young men reach their potential and achieve more as a team than they could as individuals.
I am now a fan.
As I sat and watched the game last night, I could not help but see it through a player’s perspective: The defender is leaning left, so fake and go right. At the same time, I found myself thinking like a coach: Backside rebound is open…flash to the ball…two hand pass. My previous roles—as a player and a coach—still influence how I watch the game.
Now, here is the application.
I played. Then, I helped others play. Now, I cheer for others as they play. I enjoyed each phase. I can honestly say I am enjoying being a fan now just as much as I enjoyed my days as a player and coach, even though I have little to no say in the outcome. I cheer for the team, participate in their fundraisers, and encourage them as they play.
This is much like the Christian life. There are ministries in which you are the active participant and others in which you help others reach their potential. Eventually, a time may come when you can no longer participate as you once did. At that point, you find yourself cheering on others as they take the lead.
If you have the opportunity to use your time, talent, and strength to actively participate in ministry, do it. If you can use your knowledge and experience to help others become the Christians God wants them to be, do it. Perhaps you are experiencing a time when your health or responsibilities no longer allow you to “play” or “coach.” Then be the kind of fan that does not critique or talk about how you did it better. Be the fan that cheers, supports, and helps fund the program.
My daughters rolled their eyes each time I leaned over during the game and said, “You know I played here, right?” But last night, I was just a fan. I like this role.